The Right Words for You

There is so much suffering in the world caused by a simple lack of the right words to express a clear meaning.

Apologies are neglected, complaints become curses and misunderstandings fester for years…just like Bartleby’s infection.

I have the cure!

The problem for so many of us is that we just don’t learn what true resolution actually feels like, or how to express emotions we assume are ‘hard.’

If you’d like me to help you let go of something or find the words to make your feelings clear, answer the following questions in an email, and I’ll help you to craft the perfect message.

Keep in mind that your privacy is my priority. I will destroy all records of our work as soon as we are done.

Caveat: I cannot help you with an apology for criminal or otherwise illegal behavior!

1. No names are necessary, but who is the person(s) involved?
2. If that person were to really understand how you feel, what would they need to know?
3. What has caused the issue to NOT be resolved up until now?
4. How do you want to feel about it now?
5. On a scale of 1-10, 10 being totally willing, how willing are you to let go of this issue?

Through a couple of email exchanges, we’ll develop the language you need to come to a greater sense of peace about whatever you need to resolve.

With your help, Bartleby will feel so much better. And with mine, so will you!

 

Questions? Email! bonny @ bonnyking-taylor . com